Featured on Bridal Guide! Woo!

I am not back to my full time blog writing just yet, but I do have a quick post to share with you! Bridal Guide got a hold of our wedding photos from Disney and apparently thought we were an awesome couple. Bridal Guide then contacted me, asked lots of fun questions, and now…a few emails later….we are famous!

Well…maybe not famous famous, but we are posted on BridalGuide.com! They wrote about us, our wedding, and added lots of our pictures to their Real Weddings section. The first page is a couple of paragraphs about our story, and as you click through the pictures there are several more details about our special day.

I love it! If you want to check out our 5 minutes of internet fame simply click here.

Thank you Bridal Guide for sharing our story and making us feel so special!

Cheers!

Mental Pictures

Today marks exactly one month until our wedding day. ONE MONTH!  I cannot believe how quickly this last year has flown by! But, more than that I cannot believe the amount of planning it takes to make your dream wedding come true. Oy!

For what seems like an eternity, I have listened to girl after girl complain about planning their wedding. “I just can’t wait for this to be over!” or “This wedding planning is soooo stressful!” , and the famous “I wish we would have just eloped!”

I was always annoyed hearing these statements. Isn’t this supposed to be the happiest time of your life? Shouldn’t planning a party for all of your favorite people to celebrate you and your fiancé/husband be fun? How can you complain, you are about to marry the person of your dreams, right!?!?

I can honestly say that MOST of my wedding planning experience has been fun, fairly painless, and only a tiny bit stressful. I am not very picky. My bridesmaids can wear what they want, as long as it’s yellow. Actually everyone (guys, girls, moms, dads, etc) are free to dress how they please. I picked my dress in October, the perfect shoes were on sale in November, and I had the BEST photographer do my bridal portraits.

It hasn’t all been easy breezy though. We had lots of mishaps happen throughout the year…

Our photographer who took our engagement pictures (he won the Pulitzer three times!) was a jerk and could care less about us looking good in our pictures. My hair was “accidently” cut 4 inches too short. Disney overcharges for EVERYTHING. Sorry, Disney, I still love you, but we both know its true. To save some cash we had to cut a lot of things we had originally planned on having… hope no one expects cake, chairs, or air conditioning! (just kidding…mostly). And, because our wedding is a “destination wedding”, there are lots of loved ones that cannot make the trip, which makes us sad, but is certainly understandable.

Even though, we have had to make LOTS of changes, we are both cool with this. We have to take public transportation to the ceremony? We can do that. Our cake is going to be sheet cake hidden in the kitchen? Cool. Mother-in-law-to-be wants to dress like a pirate? No problem! As long as their’s food, good music, everyone is having a good time, and the bride  we are the center of attention, we’re happy.

Yup…all of this has been true…mostly….

Up until now. One month before the wedding. 31 days until we become husband and wife. 4 and a half weeks left before every single thing we have been planning, and are still planning, has to come together perfectly.

I have tried REALLY hard to take on numerous wedding tasks all year. I’ve stayed on top of my theKnot.com to-do list, yet somehow I am still left with exactly 1,877,452,221 things left to do, and I only have one month to do them! I really think it’s only fair that a bride gets marital-leave from work the month before her wedding!

It’s not just me either. Fiance is feeling the pressure, and we have been fighting over the most ridiculous things!

Recently a co-worker of mine told me a story of a close guy friend who called freaking out the week before his wedding.  He said he was going to call of the wedding because all he and his fiancé wanted to do was punch each other in the face because they could not decide on the seating chart. He wanted to hurt the love of his life because they could not agree on the seating chart for their wedding! 

Sounds extreme, but I totally get where he’s coming from. *FYI, they did not punch each other, and they did get married.*

The other night, Fiance and I stopped speaking to each other over something as trivial as the seating chart. When we finally said sorry and made up, I decided that enough was enough. We cannot allow ourselves to become one of the “I can’t wait until this is all over!” couples. It’s time to enjoy each moment more moments (gotta be realistic here). After all, this is the only time we will ever get to be an engaged couple and plan our wedding.

You know when Jim and Pam get married? (If you don’t watch The Office, you will not get this reference, and you should probably come out of that rock you’ve been hiding under.) Anyways, in this episode they decide to take “mental pictures” throughout their wedding day to remember their favorite moments.

This is my goal over the next month, take as many mental pictures as possible. The only downside is that you cannot see my mental pictures. Guess I’ll have to do my best to describe them!

My favorite over the last few days was “taken” the night Fiance and I were trying to decide on a song for when our bridal party is introduced at the reception. We want something really fun, new-ish, popular enough for people to know, not cheesy, very dancey, etc etc. This has been one of the more difficult decisions. So, to help with the decision making process, Fiance attached his computer to our big screen, played numerous music videos of our favorite songs, while loudly announcing our bridesmaids and groomsmen.

“Here come Danica and Teddy!!!!” “Put your hand in the air for Natalie and Derek!!!” “Ladies and gentlemen, get out of your chairs for Zoey and Steve!”

I clapped and hooted and hollered for everyone, and it all ended with lots of dancing around the living room.

*CLICK!*

Fiance got most of the names wrong, but we did decide on a song. Next on the list? The seating chart. Fiance, I hope you’ve got another entertaining trick up your sleeve.

Cheers and Best Wishes!